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Warning
Signs
“Hind sight is 20/20” a=
s the
old saying goes. Nevertheless, the best course of action to take in protect=
ing
yourself from being battered is to be aware of the ‘red flags’ =
that
signal an abusive relationship before it begins and avoid it. However like =
most
people, abusers are on their best behavior during the initial acquaintance =
or
dating period. So how do you tell?
- Makes all decisions regarding money, activities, relationship=
boundaries,
(refusal of partner working or socializing outside the home,
takes or keeps money from partner).
- Refusal to socialize with you
- Insults your family and friends
- Isolates and/or alienates you from family and friends. <=
/o:p>
- Ignores your feelings.
- Insulted or ridiculed men/women as a group.=
- Insults and/or degrades your religion, valued beliefs, ethnic=
ity,
race or socioeconomic class.
- Denial of affection or approval as punishment.
- Publicly shows interest in other men or women.
- Humiliates, criticizes, shouts and calls you names.
- Makes demeaning comments about men/women.
- Refuses to work or share money
- Jealous anger
- Frequently threatens to leave or tells you to leave.
- Threatens kidnapping, or harm to you, your family or pets if =
you
leave,
- Insistence on unwanted touching.
- Shoving, pushing, or hitting you.
- Manipulation through lies and contradictions.
- Holding you to prevent you from leaving or locking you out of=
the
house or car.
- Abandoning you in dangerous areas and circumstances.
- Calling you; “whore”, frigid”,
“impotent”, “fag”
- Insisting that you dress more revealing or be excessively
concealed.
- Minimizes your feelings about sex.
- Treats you as a ‘sex object’ or possession. =
- Subjects you to reckless driving.
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